It’s my 27th birthday today (man that feels old). So I thought it would be fun to compile a list of 27 things I’ve learnt in my time on this planet we call home.

1. There aren’t many things that can’t be fixed by a hug, sleep or a good laugh or cry.
2. Being a godparent is one of the best things ever.
3. Listening to loud emo music through your headphones and going to gigs at the 2 pigs every weekend gives you tinnitus. But don’t regret it.
4. Sometimes life feels like a real sh*tstorm and you feel like you can’t get through it. But you’re stronger than you think. You can and you will.
5. A year can change everything. So if life is good, don’t take it for granted, relish every moment and be grateful. If it’s tough, have hope that things will get better.
6. Trailers for scary films are scary. So just don’t watch them, OK?
7. It’s OK to find joy in silly, childish things. In fact, it’s encouraged.
8. Being in community is life-enriching. So find your tribe and do life with them.
9. Opportunities don’t just fall into your lap, you have to grab them and go after them. Sometimes they don’t pay off, but just sometimes they do and you can make your dreams come true.
10. You can surprise yourself.
11. You can disappoint yourself.
12. You can grow to like wine. A lot.
13. It’s never too late to learn a new skill. So try things you don’t think you’ll be any good at.
14. God will sometimes feel distant/silent/non-existent. But have faith, keep seeking him, he is there.
15. People are great.
16. Everyone you come into contact with is human with their own pain and worries. So be kind, patient and compassionate to everyone.
17. Babies and puppies are just awesome.
18. It can take YEARS to heal after a toxic relationship, so just do yourself a favour and avoid them/get out as soon as you can.
19. You can do anything for six months/a year. The time will pass anyway so just do it. Everything can teach you something. Obviously referring to legal things here.
20. You’re not as old as you think you are (I appreciate at some point this will change to “not as young as you think you are” but we’re not there just yet).
21. There’s nothing like live music.
22. You can be both thrilled and slightly heartbroken by a friend’s news if it’s of something you want but don’t yet have.
23. Deep, life-giving friendships exist and they’re wonderful.
24. You’re never too old to enjoy making your parents proud.
25. Your weight/clothes size does not define you. What matters is your heart, your mind and soul. So hide the scales.
26. Marry someone who makes you laugh until you can’t breathe.
27. Life may not be all you planned, but it is wonderful. So regularly take a moment to look at all you have, be grateful and keep dreaming and planning.

That’s it! Any more wisdom anybody would like to share is welcomed 😊.